{"id":17342,"date":"2011-11-07T00:07:44","date_gmt":"2011-11-07T07:07:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/oooorgle.com\/BeyondTheCorral\/?p=17342"},"modified":"2020-08-14T05:12:19","modified_gmt":"2020-08-14T12:12:19","slug":"unconditional-parenting-moving-from-rewards-and-punishments-to-love-and-reason","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oooorgle.com\/BeyondTheCorral\/unconditional-parenting-moving-from-rewards-and-punishments-to-love-and-reason\/","title":{"rendered":"Unconditional Parenting: Moving From Rewards And Punishments To Love And Reason"},"content":{"rendered":"

<\/a>The foundation of a free society is to be found in parents who interact with children in life-enriching ways, who connect with feelings and meet needs for respect and choice.<\/p>\n

Teaching kids to attribute the cause of their feelings to things outside themselves hinders them (and later, as adults) from taking responsibility for their feelings.
\nhttp:\/\/logicallearning.net\/ResponsibilityForFeelings.mp3<\/a> (NVC audiobook segment by Marshall Rosenberg)<\/p>\n



\nWes Bertrand of CompleteLiberty.com<\/a> discusses the book Unconditional Parenting: Moving From Rewards And Punishments To Love And Reason<\/strong> by Alfie Kohn<\/strong><\/em><\/a> in a series of podcasts which are linked below.<\/p>\n


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Part One (Introduction) <\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_137_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_one.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Two (Chapter One: Conditional Parenting)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_138_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_two.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Three (Chapter Two: Giving And Withholding Love)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_139_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_three.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Four (Chapter Three: Too Much Control)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_140_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_four.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Five (Chapter Four: Punitive Damages)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_141_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_five.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Six (Chapter Five: Pushed To Succeed)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_143_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_six.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Seven (Chapter Six: What Holds Us Back)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_144_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_seven.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Eight (Chapter Seven: Principles Of Unconditional Parenting)<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_146_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_eight.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Nine (Chapter Eight: Love Without Strings Attached) 1of2<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_147_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_nine.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Ten (Chapter Eight: Love Without Strings Attached) 2of2<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_148_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_ten.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Eleven (Chapter Nine: Choices For Children) 1of2<\/a>
\n[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_149_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_eleven.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Twelve (Chapter Nine: Choices For Children) 2of2<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_150_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_twelve.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Thirteen (Chapter Ten: The Child’s Perspective) 1of2<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_151_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_thirteen.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Fourteen (Chapter Ten: The Child’s Perspective) 2of2<\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_152_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_fourteen.mp3]<\/p>\n

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Part Fifteen(Appendix) <\/a>[audio:http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/completeliberty\/Episode_154_-_Unconditional_parenting_part_fifteen.mp3]<\/p>\n


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